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About Steven Gledhill

My name is Steven Gledhill, a certified substance use disorder (SUD) professional of more than two decades. I am narried with three sons and two grandsons. I recognize that every person who's ever lived is subject to the human condition, valuing self and the need for control above all else. Therefore, all are inclined to be self-centered with the preoccupation to be absolutely satisfied and comfortable. The prerequisite for satisfying comfort is the control that all seek and that none attain. Furthermore, all of us are vulnerable to temptation and challenged desperately to resist it. We have all given ourselves over to human desire and have fallen to temptation and engaged in behavior that has potential for harm and so we all have experienced harm. We have all have experienced the pain and discomfort associated with unfavorable outcomes from self-centered behavior to one degree or another. It is only in relationship with God through Jesus Christ that anyone and everyone has the opportunity for restoration from the ills of self-centered thinking and behavior. Faith in the living God when realized through experience, appeals most to our intellectual sensibilities. Transformed by a renewed mind, it is reasonable to anticipate that God is involved with us becuase of his love for us. Relationship with God is reasonable and is as real as anything you have ever seen, heard, touched, smelled, and tasted. The Bible says, "Taste and see that the Lord is good. (The word, Lord, speak's to God's sovereignty; something even Albert Einstein believed about God.)

Sympathetic Savior: Christ’s Relationships

by Steven Gledhill for FREEdom from MEdom Project Ask yourself this question: Why is it so hard to believe that the three-person union that is God (Father, Son, and Holy Spirit) could by choice “create” the visible manifestation of Himself … Continue reading

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Doubt in the Madness of the Perfect Storm

by Steven Gledhill for FREEdom for MEdom Project O Lord, what are human beings that you should notice them,     mere mortals that you should think about them? Psalm 144:3 (NLT) Do you feel guilty or faithless before God when you … Continue reading

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Trapped in a Life on Fire! (and still playing with matches)

by Steven Gledhill for FREEdom for MEdom Project There are many among us not fully comprehending their need of God. There may be days when you or I do not fully realize our need for God. The following message was … Continue reading

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Dying Into New Life: The Reason We’re Born… Again

by Steven Gledhill for FREEdom from MEdom Series Three times Jesus pleaded to our Lord for grace Three times he was denied grace by the plan Three times he was denied grace by a man Three days he was denied … Continue reading

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Measured Faith (Belief Enough?)

by Steven Gledhill for FREEdom from MEdom Project Jesus immediately reached out and grabbed him. “You have so little faith,” Jesus said. “Why did you doubt me?” Matthew 14:31 (NLT) Jesus asked: “Why do you have so little faith? So don’t … Continue reading

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Step by Step… One Day at a Time (A 12-Step Study)

by Steven Gledhill for FREEdom from MEdom Project Jesus said, “Seek first His kingdom and His righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well. Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself. Each day … Continue reading

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Sympathetic Savior: Christ’s Temptation

by Steven Gledhill for FREEdom from MEdom Project James wrote that God cannot do wrong or even be tempted to do wrong. Jesus, having laid down all divine privilege as God, fully man, was tempted to sin. He was tempted … Continue reading

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Restoration Trifecta (Peter’s Restored)

by Steven Gledhill for FREEdom from MEdom Project After we have been dirty for awhile (sinful behavior), we can trust that Jesus will wash us clean. He even forgets about our sinful behavior. We can as much as deny Jesus Christ … Continue reading

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I Don’t Know That Man! (Peter’s Betrayal)

30 Then they sang a hymn and went out to the Mount of Olives. 31 On the way, Jesus told them, “Tonight all of you will desert me. For the Scriptures say, ‘God will strike the Shepherd, and the sheep of the flock will … Continue reading

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A Call to Consistency

by Steven Gledhill for FREEdom from MEdom Project I want to thank each and every one of you that have spent some time in FREEdom from MEdom Project. I hope from the bottom of my heart that you were and … Continue reading

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Overcome FEAR (Failed Expectations Affecting Reality) or be Overcome by It

by Steven Gledhill for FREEdom From MEdom Project You are not alone… 18.8 Million American adults will suffer from depression this year. 2.3 Million American adults will struggle with bipolar disorder this year. 9.1 Million American adults have an anxiety … Continue reading

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It’s Simply a Matter of Time (Soon I Will See)

by Steven Gledhill for FREEdom from MEdom Project “I do not believe it to be a matter of hope… it’s simply a matter of time.”  —from the movie, The Matrix, Reloaded: Morpheus describing the certainty of victory because of who … Continue reading

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On the Cross? In the Grave? Where Is He?

By Steven Gledhill for FREEdom From MEdom Project. At it’s conclusion is a performance from a Gospel Music legend Where is Jesus today? Is He on the cross? No, He’s not there? Is He in the tomb? He’s not there … Continue reading

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All In?

by Steven Gledhill for FREEdom from MEdom Project Years ago, I worked with a man named Stacy. Stacy is an African-American gentleman who sang in the choir at a baptist church in the inner city of Chicago. He informed me … Continue reading

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I Can “Manage” Just Fine (Beware of the Illusion)

by Steven Gledhill for FREEdom from MEdom Project “I was so obsessed with me and the reasons that I might be dissatisfied that I couldn’t focus on other people… What I trace this to is a certain selfishness on my … Continue reading

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Mourning Sickness… From Resistant to Repentant

“I especially liked the way you tackled the difficult topic of ambivalence and how our addictive behavior runs counter to the intellectual truth of the matter (common sense). There is a sorrow that the soul must go through in letting … Continue reading

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Mind Games (What Gives?)

by Steven Gledhill for FREEdom from MEdom Project “I can to some extent control my acts. I have no direct control over my temperament. If what we are matters even more than what we do—if indeed if what we do … Continue reading

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Sympathetic Savior: The Humanity of Jesus

God became flesh… How is it possible? What does it mean? How Human was Jesus? by Steven Gledhill for FREEdom from MEdom Project Sympathetic Savior: The Humanity of Jesus is intended to clarify what it means that Jesus Christ experienced … Continue reading

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A Man After God’s Own Heart: David’s Story of Addiction, Repentance, Relapse & Restoration

by Steven Gledhill for FREEdom from MEdom Project “It’s long, but it’s worth the read to the one who will take the time. It is admirable that you took on David’s sexual addiction head-on, whereas most Bible scholars seem to … Continue reading

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BRAINWASHED into Something Beautiful… New Life!

by Steven Gledhill for FREEdom from MEdom Project The first two steps of the Twelve Step model state the following: 1. We admitted we were powerless over addiction* – that our lives had become unmanageable. 2. Came to believe that … Continue reading

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