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About Steven Gledhill

My name is Steven Gledhill, a certified substance use disorder (SUD) professional of more than two decades. I am narried with three sons and two grandsons. I recognize that every person who's ever lived is subject to the human condition, valuing self and the need for control above all else. Therefore, all are inclined to be self-centered with the preoccupation to be absolutely satisfied and comfortable. The prerequisite for satisfying comfort is the control that all seek and that none attain. Furthermore, all of us are vulnerable to temptation and challenged desperately to resist it. We have all given ourselves over to human desire and have fallen to temptation and engaged in behavior that has potential for harm and so we all have experienced harm. We have all have experienced the pain and discomfort associated with unfavorable outcomes from self-centered behavior to one degree or another. It is only in relationship with God through Jesus Christ that anyone and everyone has the opportunity for restoration from the ills of self-centered thinking and behavior. Faith in the living God when realized through experience, appeals most to our intellectual sensibilities. Transformed by a renewed mind, it is reasonable to anticipate that God is involved with us becuase of his love for us. Relationship with God is reasonable and is as real as anything you have ever seen, heard, touched, smelled, and tasted. The Bible says, "Taste and see that the Lord is good. (The word, Lord, speak's to God's sovereignty; something even Albert Einstein believed about God.)

What Then Shall We Say In Response to These Things?

by Steven Gledhill for FREEdom from MEdom Project Dinner is ready. You open the front door and call out to your children to come home for dinner. For each of your children you made their favorite meal. Many of your … Continue reading

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Whoosh! (A Testimony of Divine Intervention)

by Steven Gledhill for FREEdom from MEdom Project Why don’t we trust God? Is it because we struggle to entirely believe? Hebrews 11:1 says, “Faith is the substance of things hoped for and the evidence of things unseen.” Faith comes … Continue reading

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Bird Whisperer (A True Story)

by Steven Gledhill for FREEdom from MEdom Project Remember that it is not enough to simply admit that our way of handling problems does not work. There is a component in most species where at some point in the course … Continue reading

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Scratch the Itch

by Steven Gledhill for FREEdom from MEdom Project We live in a social culture that promotes the “It’s all about me” ideal. The fact is that it has been all about me and all about you since Adam and Eve. … Continue reading

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Addicted to Me (“I was so obsessed with me…”)

by Steven Gledhill for FREEdom from MEdom Project “I was so obsessed with me and the reasons that I might be dissatisfied that I couldn’t focus on other people… What I trace this to is a certain selfishness on my … Continue reading

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Disease Debate: Is Addiction a Disease or a Decision?

by Steven Gledhill for FREEdom from MEdom Project “(This) is right on. You did a lot of work and your study was directed by God’s eternal truth from the Bible.” —Pastor Randal Ross, Calvary Church, Chicago (Naperville), IL Pages related … Continue reading

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Walk on Water Lately? (“Faith is an ocean you can walk on”)

by Steven Gledhill for the FREEdom from MEdom Project Why don’t we trust God? We trust God when things are at least tolerable. But, you know what I’m talking about. I’m talking about really—fully—trusting God; especially when the going gets … Continue reading

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Strike It Rich… Oil that Is!

by Steven Gledhill for FREEdom from MEdom Project I think my neighbor has been brainwashed into believing he has oil in his backyard. He told me awhile back that a friend of his had struck it rich drilling for oil … Continue reading

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Guilt & Shame, Scabs & Scars (Recovery from Your Past)

by Steven Gledhill for FREEdom from MEdom Project For God was in Christ, reconciling the world to himself, no longer counting people’s sins against them. And he gave us this wonderful message of reconciliation. 2 Corinthians 5:19 (NLT) Jesus Christ … Continue reading

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Come to Your Senses (Restorative Recovery)

by Steven Gledhill for FREEdom from MEdom Project Guilt can be a vehicle for restored health by recognizing mistakes, learning from them, and taking responsibility to initiate changes; and then implement healthy disciplines for the purpose of repentance and growth. … Continue reading

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Open Sesame…The Way Out is The Way In

by Steven Gledhill for FREEdom from MEdom Project “Why don’t we trust God?” Hebrews 11:1 says, “Faith is the substance of things hoped for and the evidence of things unseen.” Faith comes from hope being realized in substance according to … Continue reading

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Revolutionary Transformation (Evidence for Faith)

by Steven Gledhill for FREEdom from MEdom Project What does it take to experience change and feel better—be better? Therefore, I urge you, brothers and sisters, in view of God’s mercy, to offer your bodies as a living sacrifice, holy and pleasing to … Continue reading

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Caged by Shame (Redemptive Healing)

by Steven Gledhill for FREEdom from MEdom Project The two-headed enemy of recovery is our sin nature and the devil himself. This enemy had a baby, and called it ‘shame’. Shame sets out to hold recovering sin addicts in captivity. … Continue reading

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Religion’s Regret

by Steven Gledhill for FREEdom From MEdom Project Pure and genuine religion in the sight of God the Father means caring for orphans and widows in their distress and refusing to let the world corrupt you. James 1:27 (NLT) For … Continue reading

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Stock Exchange: A Sound Investment Strategy

by Steven Gledhill for FREEdom from MEdom Project “The kingdom of heaven is like treasure hidden in a field. When a man found it, he hid it again, and then in his joy went and sold all he had and … Continue reading

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Letting Go: The Isaac Principle

by Steven Gledhill for FREEdom from MEdom Project The problem of addiction to sin and its underlying selfish ambition is that our addictions are the product of idolizing and therefore worshiping self. This is the MEdom condition each of us … Continue reading

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One Head, One Body (Where His Heart Is)

by Steven Gledhill for FREEdom from MEdom Project God has put the body together, giving greater honor to the parts that lacked it, so that there should be no division in the body, but that its parts should have equal … Continue reading

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Fool or Free? Dead or Alive?

by Steven Gledhill for FREEdom from MEdom Project And if Christ has not been raised, then your faith is useless and you are still guilty of your sins. In that case, all who have died believing in Christ are lost! And if … Continue reading

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Better to Give? Better How? Better for Who?

by Steven Gledhill for FREEdom from MEdom Series We have likely all heard it. Possibly first from a parent, or a grandparent, or a teacher, or someone. “It is better to give than to receive.” The question is better for … Continue reading

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Waiting on God Waiting on Me

by Steven Gledhill for FREEdom from MEdom Project Why is it that I will pray for something and then feel like I am waiting and waiting for some kind of response? What is the hold-up? Is God even paying attention? … Continue reading

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