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About Steven Gledhill

My name is Steven Gledhill, a certified substance use disorder (SUD) professional of more than two decades. I am narried with three sons and two grandsons. I recognize that every person who's ever lived is subject to the human condition, valuing self and the need for control above all else. Therefore, all are inclined to be self-centered with the preoccupation to be absolutely satisfied and comfortable. The prerequisite for satisfying comfort is the control that all seek and that none attain. Furthermore, all of us are vulnerable to temptation and challenged desperately to resist it. We have all given ourselves over to human desire and have fallen to temptation and engaged in behavior that has potential for harm and so we all have experienced harm. We have all have experienced the pain and discomfort associated with unfavorable outcomes from self-centered behavior to one degree or another. It is only in relationship with God through Jesus Christ that anyone and everyone has the opportunity for restoration from the ills of self-centered thinking and behavior. Faith in the living God when realized through experience, appeals most to our intellectual sensibilities. Transformed by a renewed mind, it is reasonable to anticipate that God is involved with us becuase of his love for us. Relationship with God is reasonable and is as real as anything you have ever seen, heard, touched, smelled, and tasted. The Bible says, "Taste and see that the Lord is good. (The word, Lord, speak's to God's sovereignty; something even Albert Einstein believed about God.)

When the Levee Breaks (Restoring Trust)

by Steven Gledhill for FREEdom from MEdom Project Is trust something to be earned or is trust something that is lost? One person might say, “How could you? I trusted you, completely. I don’t think I can trust you anymore.” … Continue reading

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Listen with LUV… It’s Not About the Nail

by Steven Gledhill for Freedom from MEdom Project Understand this, my dear brothers and sisters: You must all be quick to listen, slow to speak, and slow to get angry. James 1:19 (NLT) Before beginning this discussion on healthy communication, … Continue reading

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Pop Goes the Weasel… Managing Conflict, Anger, & Resentment

by Steven Gledhill for FREEdom from MEdom Project “We will sacrifice anything on the altar of our anger, the rage that is slowly building from a lifetime of thwarted desire—our marriages, our child’s self-esteem, someone’s very life. —John Eldredge, author, The … Continue reading

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Root Dug Deep That Thorny Weed (Resentment Recovery)

by Steven Gledhill for FREEdom from MEdom Project We tend to be the most vulnerable with the ones we love the most. With vulnerability comes risk. With risk comes suspect expectation. With failed expectations comes disappointment. With disappointment comes pain. … Continue reading

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Under My Skin (When the answer is “NO” in the Age of Grace)

by Steven Gledhill for FREEdom from MEdom Project In order to keep me from becoming conceited, I was given a thorn in my flesh, a messenger of Satan, to torment me. Three times I pleaded with the Lord to take it … Continue reading

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What About You? Will You Also Leave Me?

by Steven Gledhill for FREEdom from MEdom Project At this point many of his disciples turned away and deserted him. John 6:66 (NLT) Much of the world these days lives in perilous times; a sign that we are likely in … Continue reading

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Do You Want God’s Best or Is Yours Best Enough?

by Steven Gledhill for FREEdom from MEdom Project “To live with desire is to choose vulnerability over self-protection; to admit our desire and seek help beyond ourselves is even more vulnerable. It is an act of trust. In other words, … Continue reading

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Are You Under the Influence?

by Steven Gledhill for FREEdom from MEdom Project “I can to some extent control my acts. I have no direct control over my temperament. If what we are matters even more than what we do—if indeed if what we do … Continue reading

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The Joy-Integrity Connection

by Steven Gledhill for FREEdom from MEdom Project If we confess our sins to him, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all wickedness. 1 John 1:5-9 (NLT) In a seminar I … Continue reading

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Surrender It All or Surrender At All? (What’s In Your Camel?)

by Steven Gledhill for FREEdom from MEdom Project If you have mostly turned your will and your life over to the will of God in your life, mostly surrendered to His plan for you, have you truly surrendered? If you … Continue reading

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“I Hate Myself… or Do I? (Restoring Self-Esteem)

by Steven Gledhill for FREEdom from MEdom Project Often central to the war within the mind is the notion that feeling unworthy and undeserving of love reflects the absence of self-love. The reality is that if we did not love … Continue reading

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Depression Obsession (Finding the Right Road to Freedom)

by Steven Gledhill for FREEdom from MEdom Project “Progress means getting nearer to the place you want to be. And if you have taken a wrong turning, then to go forward does not get you any nearer. If you are … Continue reading

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New Age Living (and oh by the way, your feet stink)

by Steven Gledhill for FREEdom from MEdom Project I keep asking that the God of our Lord Jesus Christ, the glorious Father, may give you the Spirit of wisdom and revelation, so that you may know him better. I pray that the … Continue reading

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Justified… Just if I’d Never Needed a Root Canal

by Steven Gledhill for FREEdom from MEdom Project  All Scripture is from the New International Version unless otherwise noted. Feeling like a failure, I am rotting in decay deep into the root of who I am. I need a root … Continue reading

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Bound for Glory, by Vertical Worship Band

Verse 1: This world is not my home I’m here for a moment It’s all I’ve ever known But this world is not my home The fight is not my own These burdens aren’t my future The empty tomb has … Continue reading

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The Original CBT Manual (for Christ-Centered Clinicians)

by Steven Gledhill for FREEdom from MEdom Project FREEdom from MEdom Project (FFMP) is a unique opportunity to merge together the best of evidenced-based cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT) approaches with faith-driven Christ-centered 12-Step power for a transformative new life experience. This … Continue reading

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Are You Numb to the Glory? (Beware of Complacency)

by Steven Gledhill for FREEdom from MEdom Project In church this morning, we were asked this question: “Are you numb to the glory?” Why would Pastor Fran Leeman* ask such a question? What does it mean? Pastor Leeman’s sermon text was … Continue reading

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Sympathetic Savior: The Sacrifice of Jesus

by Steven Gledhill for FREEdom from MEdom Project If you are looking for Jesus on the cross, you’ll not find Him there. Your sin has been removed from your past, present, and future. The stone that has kept you in … Continue reading

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Heaven, Hell, Three-foot Forks, and My Problem with Hank

by Steven Gledhill for FREEdom from MEdom Project See that no one pays back wrong for wrong, but at all times make it your aim to do good to one another and to all people. Be joyful always, pray at … Continue reading

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Romancing the Stone (Beware of What You Worship)

by Steven Gledhill for FREEdom from MEdom Project Romancing the Stone is the worship of idols we have erected from our entitlement-driven obsessions that direct us in our worship of self (worship is, “extravagant respect or admiration for or devotion … Continue reading

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