{"id":1715,"date":"2011-05-18T13:42:31","date_gmt":"2011-05-18T18:42:31","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.freedomfrommedom.com\/member\/?p=1715"},"modified":"2011-10-31T18:42:52","modified_gmt":"2011-10-31T23:42:52","slug":"twrac-034-51811-between-the-rock-and-a-hard-place","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.freedomfrommedom.com\/member\/applications\/twrac-034-51811-between-the-rock-and-a-hard-place","title":{"rendered":"TWRAC 034 (5\/18\/11): Between The Rock and a Hard Place"},"content":{"rendered":"<h2>This Week&#8217;s Recovery Application Challenge<\/h2>\n<h5><span style=\"color: #134835;\">Please click <a title=\"Open TWIRL 034\" href=\"http:\/\/www.freedomfrommedom.com\/member\/lessons\/twirl-034-51811-between-the-rock-and-a-hard-place\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"color: #003366;\">TWIRL 034<\/span><\/a> for this week&#8217;s lesson prior to proceeding with this application challenge.<\/span><\/h5>\n<h3><span style=\"color: #800000;\"><strong>Between The Rock and a Hard Place<\/strong><\/span><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">Please pay attention to the liberating transformative truth as you read this critically important Scripture from Romans, chapters 7 and 8.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><sup id=\"en-NLT-28056\">4<\/sup> So, my dear brothers and sisters, this is the point: You died to the power of the law when you died with Christ. And now you are united with the one who was raised from the dead. As a result, we can produce a harvest of good deeds for God.\u00a0<sup id=\"en-NLT-28057\">5<\/sup> When we were controlled by our old nature,\u00a0sinful desires were at work within us, and the law aroused these evil desires that produced a harvest of sinful deeds, resulting in death.<sup id=\"en-NLT-28058\">6<\/sup> But now we have been released from the law, for we died to it and are no longer captive to its power. Now we can serve God, not in the old way of obeying the letter of the law, but in the new way of living in the Spirit.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<h5><strong><span style=\"font-size: 16px; line-height: 24px; color: #000000;\"><sup id=\"en-NLT-28059\">7<\/sup> Well then, am I suggesting that the law of God is sinful? Of course not! In fact, it was the law that showed me my sin. I would never have known that coveting is wrong if the law had not said, \u201cYou must not covet.\u201d\u00a0<sup id=\"en-NLT-28060\">8<\/sup> But sin used this command to arouse all kinds of covetous desires within me! If there were no law, sin would not have that power.\u00a0<sup id=\"en-NLT-28061\">9<\/sup> At one time I lived without understanding the law. But when I learned the command not to covet, for instance, the power of sin came to life,\u00a0<sup id=\"en-NLT-28062\">10<\/sup> and I died. So I discovered that the law\u2019s commands, which were supposed to bring life, brought spiritual death instead.\u00a0<sup id=\"en-NLT-28063\">11<\/sup> Sin took advantage of those commands and deceived me; it used the commands to kill me.\u00a0<sup id=\"en-NLT-28064\">12<\/sup> But still, the law itself is holy, and its commands are holy and right and good.<\/span><\/strong><\/h5>\n<p><strong><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><sup id=\"en-NLT-28065\">13<\/sup> But how can that be? Did the law, which is good, cause my death? Of course not! Sin used what was good to bring about my condemnation to death. So we can see how terrible sin really is. It uses God\u2019s good commands for its own evil purposes.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<h5><strong><span style=\"font-size: 16px; line-height: 24px; color: #000000;\"><sup id=\"en-NLT-28066\">14<\/sup> So the trouble is not with the law, for it is spiritual and good. The trouble is with me, for I am all too human, a slave to sin.\u00a0<sup id=\"en-NLT-28067\">15<\/sup> I don\u2019t really understand myself, for I want to do what is right, but I don\u2019t do it. Instead, I do what I hate.\u00a0<sup id=\"en-NLT-28068\">16<\/sup> But if I know that what I am doing is wrong, this shows that I agree that the law is good.\u00a0<sup id=\"en-NLT-28069\">17<\/sup> So I am not the one doing wrong; it is sin living in me that does it.<\/span><\/strong><\/h5>\n<p><strong><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><sup id=\"en-NLT-28070\">18<\/sup> And I know that nothing good lives in me, that is, in my sinful nature.\u00a0I want to do what is right, but I can\u2019t.\u00a0<sup id=\"en-NLT-28071\">19<\/sup> I want to do what is good, but I don\u2019t. I don\u2019t want to do what is wrong, but I do it anyway.\u00a0<sup id=\"en-NLT-28072\">20<\/sup> But if I do what I don\u2019t want to do, I am not really the one doing wrong; it is sin living in me that does it.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><sup id=\"en-NLT-28073\">21<\/sup> I have discovered this principle of life\u2014that when I want to do what is right, I inevitably do what is wrong.\u00a0<sup id=\"en-NLT-28074\">22<\/sup> I love God\u2019s law with all my heart.\u00a0<sup id=\"en-NLT-28075\">23<\/sup> But there is another power\u00a0within me that is at war with my mind. This power makes me a slave to the sin that is still within me.\u00a0<sup id=\"en-NLT-28076\">24<\/sup> Oh, what a miserable person I am! Who will free me from this life that is dominated by sin and death?\u00a0<sup id=\"en-NLT-28077\">25<\/sup> Thank God! The answer is in Jesus Christ our Lord. So you see how it is: In my mind I really want to obey God\u2019s law, but because of my sinful nature I am a slave to sin.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong><sup id=\"en-NLT-28078\">1<\/sup> So now there is no condemnation for those who belong to Christ Jesus.\u00a0<sup id=\"en-NLT-28079\">2<\/sup> And because you belong to him, the power\u00a0of the life-giving Spirit has freed you\u00a0from the power of sin that leads to death.\u00a0<sup id=\"en-NLT-28080\">3<\/sup> The law of Moses was unable to save us because of the weakness of our sinful nature.\u00a0So God did what the law could not do. He sent his own Son in a body like the bodies we sinners have. And in that body God declared an end to sin\u2019s control over us by giving his Son as a sacrifice for our sins.\u00a0<sup id=\"en-NLT-28081\">4<\/sup> He did this so that the just requirement of the law would be fully satisfied for us, who no longer follow our sinful nature but instead follow the Spirit.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong><sup id=\"en-NLT-28082\">5<\/sup> Those who are dominated by the sinful nature think about sinful things, but those who are controlled by the Holy Spirit think about things that please the Spirit.\u00a0<sup id=\"en-NLT-28083\">6<\/sup> So letting your sinful nature control your mind leads to death. But letting the Spirit control your mind leads to life and peace.\u00a0<sup id=\"en-NLT-28084\">7<\/sup> For the sinful nature is always hostile to God. It never did obey God\u2019s laws, and it never will.\u00a0<sup id=\"en-NLT-28085\">8<\/sup> That\u2019s why those who are still under the control of their sinful nature can never please God.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong><sup id=\"en-NLT-28086\">9<\/sup> But you are not controlled by your sinful nature. You are controlled by the Spirit if you have the Spirit of God living in you. (And remember that those who do not have the Spirit of Christ living in them do not belong to him at all.)\u00a0<sup id=\"en-NLT-28087\">10<\/sup> And Christ lives within you, so even though your body will die because of sin, the Spirit gives you life\u00a0because you have been made right with God.\u00a0<sup id=\"en-NLT-28088\">11<\/sup> The Spirit of God, who raised Jesus from the dead, lives in you. And just as God raised Christ Jesus from the dead, he will give life to your mortal bodies by this same Spirit living within you.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong><sup id=\"en-NLT-28089\">12<\/sup> Therefore, dear brothers and sisters,\u00a0you have no obligation to do what your sinful nature urges you to do.\u00a0<sup id=\"en-NLT-28090\">13<\/sup> For if you live by its dictates, you will die. But if through the power of the Spirit you put to death the deeds of your sinful nature,\u00a0you will live.\u00a0<sup id=\"en-NLT-28091\">14<\/sup> For all who are led by the Spirit of God are children\u00a0of God.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">Ambivalence is the reality of wanting two or more things with equal intensity\u00a0that are in direct opposition to one another. The net result is a\u00a0<em>resistance<\/em> to one thing or the other when one is pulled in the opposite direction by the other. Perhaps you have heard the expression, &#8220;Torn between two lovers&#8230;&#8221;, which is what Paul is talking about when dealing with the power at war with his mind. He wants to do in recovery that which is good, healthy, and right&#8212;not because he has to but because he wants to for his own benefit. Yet he is being pulled by a force with equal or greater intensity by that which is self-centered and in opposition to the will of God.<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><span style=\"color: #000000;\">How is this true in your life?<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"color: #000000;\">How would you describe being motivated by the desires and urges of your selfish sin nature (what the Bible refers to as the flesh)?<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"color: #000000;\">How is living according to the dictates of the flesh manifested in your behavior?<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"color: #000000;\">What would you say it means to obey God?<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"color: #000000;\">Does obeying God carry a negative connotation for you? Explain.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><strong><sup id=\"en-NLT-26177\">1<\/sup> Jesus returned to Jerusalem for one of the Jewish holy days.\u00a0<sup id=\"en-NLT-26178\">2<\/sup> Inside the city, near the Sheep Gate, was the pool of Bethesda,\u00a0with five covered porches.\u00a0<sup id=\"en-NLT-26179\">3<\/sup> Crowds of sick people\u2014blind, lame, or paralyzed\u2014lay on the porches.\u00a0<sup id=\"en-NLT-26180\">5<\/sup> One of the men lying there had been sick for thirty-eight years.\u00a0<sup id=\"en-NLT-26181\">6<\/sup> When Jesus saw him and knew he had been ill for a long time, he asked him,\u00a0\u201cWould you like to get well?\u201d\u00a0<sup id=\"en-NLT-26182\">7<\/sup> \u201cI can\u2019t, sir,\u201d the sick man said, \u201cfor I have no one to put me into the pool when the water bubbles up. Someone else always gets there ahead of me.\u201d\u00a0<sup id=\"en-NLT-26183\">8<\/sup> Jesus told him,\u00a0\u201cStand up, pick up your mat, and walk!\u201d\u00a0<sup id=\"en-NLT-26184\">9<\/sup> Instantly, the man was healed! He rolled up his sleeping mat and began walking! <\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><strong><sup id=\"en-NLT-26188\">13<\/sup> The man didn\u2019t know, for Jesus had disappeared into the crowd.\u00a0<sup id=\"en-NLT-26189\">14<\/sup> But afterward Jesus found him in the Temple and told him,\u00a0\u201cNow you are well; so stop sinning, or something even worse may happen to you.\u201d <\/strong>John 5:1-9, 13-14 (NLT)<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><span style=\"color: #000000;\">How has obeying God been a demonstration of God&#8217;s mercy in your life? In other words, how might you say obeying God has actually spared you from something negative in your life? <\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"color: #000000;\">What does it mean to your life, this internal conflict between living in obedience to the flesh and obedience to God in the Spirit?<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"color: #000000;\">What do you hope to accomplish in recovery? What does your life look like should you accomplish your goal?<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"color: #000000;\">What would you admit that you are selfish about that, when you are honest and not lying to yourself (denial), tends to get in the way of\u00a0your recovery God&#8217;s way? Include activities, thoughts, feelings (i.e.: ambition, greed, pride, resentment, jealousy, anger, disappointment, frustration, shame, etc.), and fantasies (i.e.: lust, daydreaming, rehearsing worst-case scenarios, grandiosity, etc.)<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"color: #000000;\">What do you\u00a0have to gain or have gained\u00a0pursuing selfishness? List them all\u00a0and be specific.<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"color: #000000;\">What do you have to lose or have lost pursuing selfishness? List them all\u00a0and be specific. Identify individual relationships affected by name. In other words, don&#8217;t generalize by indicating &#8220;my family&#8221; or &#8220;my children&#8221;.<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"color: #000000;\">What do you have to gain or have gained in recovery God&#8217;s way (ABC\u00a0Recovery Steps, 12 steps)? List them all and be specific. Again, identify each individual relationship by name.<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"color: #000000;\">What do\u00a0you have to lose or have lost in recovery God&#8217;s way? List them all and be specific.<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"color: #000000;\">Next, Score each item on each of your four lists between 1 and 100. You&#8217;re scoring them, not ranking them. So, several on the list can receive a score of 100 or 50.\u00a0\u00a0Then, add up your scores\u00a0in each category. Combine the scores for questions 4 and 7. Then combine the scores for 5 and 6. By doing this you can measure your degree of ambivalence and discover how much or little you may be resistant in your recovery.<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"color: #000000;\">Assuming the likelihood that your score for 5 and 6 is substantially higher than your score for 4 and 7, why do you still pursue selfishness to achieve satisfaction or to minimize dissatisfaction? Could it be that you are addicted to you?<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"color: #000000;\">Take time to meditate on this and pray that God will be powerful in your life and that His influence will be powerful in your mind to how you think and behave.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><strong>It is God working in you to will and to act according to His purpose<\/strong>. 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